One of the people that I learned poker from was a guy named Eddie G. Eddie was a real quiet guy that didn't say very much, he was fun to hang out with and if he said something that usually made a big impression on me. I was very frustrated, I was losing so I stepped down for a bit and couldn't make any headway. I mentioned this to Eddie and he said "yeah, it's tough to play poker with people that don't care about the outcome". What he meant was obvious, the stakes didn't matter to these people so they played like idiots. In general you want to play with idiots but too many idiots spoil the party.
Which brings me to another point. For every person that is working on their game and contributing to the forums and such there are 4 to 5 people that aren't. They don't follow the bankroll guidelines and they try to win the lottery off of the first ten dollars. Frankly that is moronic. If you look at most of the people that contribute to this forum many of them have received WAY more than $10, many in fact are staked. If Presum3vil or Doomsayer (I only use them because they were 2 of our first users) needs $50 I will send it to them, no questions asked. They are in this for the long haul.
In short, this should matter to you because this is an opportunity of a life time for the people that try. I am looking for people to stake, I am looking for people to help win and I share everything I have learned in over 20 years of playing winning poker. I laugh at the people that run up there $10 to $20 then sit down at .25-.50 and take a bad beat when their Kings get busted by Fours because the bad beat wasn't that they lost the hand, their bad beat was that they were stupid enough to not follow the rules. I don't have a lot of criteria available to me on how to judge people, so I judge people based on the info I have. If you want to have a chance I am asking that you follow the rules. I can really only think of one case in the last six months where someone followed the rules and just couldn't win. Just for the simple fact that they followed the rules I did everything I could to help them with money and time.
Which takes me back to Eddie G's lesson. Rules matter, they are what separates moron's from people that take money off of the table and buy things for their families, their loved ones or themselves. My wife doesn't complain when I play poker because for one I am respectful to my family in regards to when and how but also because it pays for stuff.
If you want to win the lottery go find cans in a trash can and sell them and maybe you will get lucky. Doubtful though, real winners in life know what matters. Opportunity matters. Don't blow it. Next time you think to yourself my wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend just doesn't understand. They would understand a hell of a lot more if it was something you were serious about. Something that you took time to get better at. If you don't do that you are just gambling and frankly, that is not what we are doing here.